Wednesday, February 27, 2008
A Tuesday
In sitting down to update the blog, I realize that settling into our "day-to-day" here doesn't lend itself to adventure writing. We haven't spent much time driving through pristine, untouched country side, nor has anyone nearly fallen on top of seal in quite a while now.
So I've created a game for you. You know those kids magazines that have 2 pictures side by side and you are supposed to pick out the 10 things in the second picture that are different from the first? They'll change the boy's hat from red to blue or add an extra ear to the dog's head or whatever. So here is your chance to play the grown-up version. I'm going to tell you about my day today and you get to compare it to what you know of my days in Colorado. We'll have a contest to see how many you can pick out. The winner gets to come visit us! (Airfare and lodging not included.) (I just want you to know that I am totally cognizant of the fact that this might be more fun for me than it is for you!)
I woke up this past Tuesday morning and went for a run along the ocean (that would be one because, as we know, there's no ocean in Lakewood. See how this goes? Now you see if you can find the rest) while my husband and children were sleeping. I saw the skies turn from black to dark blue to pink, peach, yellow and orange. Then to pale blue to bright blue. I watched the sun rise up out of the back of the ocean, turning the water from a vast darkness to a playful turquoise toothpaste color, the waves brimming with creamy breaking water. It's amazing how the ocean can look menacing and mysterious in the dark and delightfully playful with the light.
I drove home after my run and made my children breakfast and packed lunches and with the help of Mark, we got them out the door on time without much hassle. I sprayed the kids with bug spray which I know is an exercise in futility but I do what I can. We all got in the car and drove Mark less than 5 minutes to his school and dropped him off and then another 5 minutes to the kids' school to drop them off. Gabe leapt out of the car, as he does every morning. It's been a few weeks now since I've gotten a good-bye hug or kiss. Are those days really over??? Jordan and I waited until her teacher arrived and then walked over to the sandpit where her class gathers in the morning. She struggled with my leaving as she does most mornings but she has two wonderful teachers, one of whom playfully and lovingly took her hand and redirected her attention off me and onto something fun for her.
Then I drove off, alone, for the day. I dropped the car off at the Servo (service station) for an oil change and to figure out what the creaking sound is about when I turn right. After handing them the keys, I walked home. I made a quick pit stop and then went back out my front door and across a street to the big open space park where I took myself for an hour long hike through the gum tree forest. As I was hiking along, enjoying the raucous bird song, the fresh air and the February sun with temperatures in the high 70s, a kangaroo hopped across my path about 20 yards in front of me.
About 15 minutes later, I was startled (you should have heard what I said!) by a foot and a half long, black, shiny goana (lizard) who was chilling by the edge of the trail I was on.
At the end of my hike, I came back in the house, made myself some lunch from the home cooked meal I'd made the night before and then sat down to write. I got out 2000 words today but unlike yesterday when my fingers were dancing about the keyboard, today was hard work. I'm afraid that on some days, the words have much more heft than depth. But they're out there, those words, and my job for the day was done.
I had some extra time before our car would be done at the shop so I sat in our family room and read a book in a quiet house. The car people picked me up and I went on my way to get the kids from their school and then Mark from his. Once we were all home together, well before 4:00, we played. Gabe and I played Othello, Mark and the kids played basketball. Then the kids and I cleaned the bathroom together: "I get to clean the toilet," yelled Jordan. "I get the bathtub," countered Gabe. I love Australia! Mark spent that time working on some travel plans on the internet. (For those of you who are gearing up to give him a hard time for not being a team player, step back. I'm so sick of getting sucked into the internet trying to book accomodations in a country I know very little about that I would much rather have scrubbed tile than do what he was doing.)
Let's see, so after the bathroom, the kids went into the family room (which they call the lego room for good reason) and played nicely together. For the most part. I made dinner, from scratch, for the umpteenth night in a row. Everyone helped get it on the table and we sat down together for our evening meal. For all the Waldorf people reading this, we've learned a new blessing. Email me if you'd like the words. It's lovely.
After dinner, Mark did dishes, kids took baths, I was probably returning emails. Once the kids were in bed, Mark and I went out on our back deck, lit the citronella candles and talked while we watched the thunderstorm light up the sky and drench the ground. Did you notice that I didn't say the phone rang all evening?
So that is what life is like here some days, most days. We like to have adventures on the weekends which have been fun, exploring the country and coast within an hour or two drive from here. But none of us are feeling pulled to separate from each other to do other things. This family time we're having has been, by far, the greatest unexpected gift of this entire trip up to this point. I wonder if that will be the case all year. I'm guessing it might.
So here's to family, both immediate and extended--as far around the globe as it reaches.
Saturday, February 23, 2008
Mark's school update
Hello out there in Blogland. Here is a school update from Down Under.
It is now the end of week 4 at
Here are some thoughts I have garnered the past few weeks about school here versus what I know at
Curriculum – really pretty similar to ours, though they do have some funny names for some things like “surds” for rational numbers and “indices” for exponents. I have to be sure to adjust the language of any worksheets of mine that I use from previous years or else the kids are thrown into a complete tizzy.
Resources - not even close, they lack so much that we take for granted. From whiteboards to LCD’s to printers and copiers, all of which they have but on a much more limited basis, it is a step back in time. The text books are adequate but geared for better readers and some are quite antiquated.
Student ability – for the most part similar to ours but here they track students by the beginning of year 8 based on end-of-year 7 exams. So, as a teacher, it is wonderfully easy if you get a top class and torture if you get a bottom one. I am really getting a close up view of the benefits and shortcomings of tracking. I have a top year 8 class that is a dream and bottom year10 class that may drive me back to the grog. It must be so demoralizing for the kids who are in the lower classes years 8 through 10 to know they are identified school wide as the “slow” ones. Students are able to move up based on improved performance but the lower level classes do not easily lend themselves to scholarliness, as they are usually a controlled riot at best. I now at least have some understanding why the
Student Behavior – This is the one area I struggle with identifying clearly yet. On the whole, my classes are louder, rowdier and more unruly than anything I have ever experienced at
Hours – Absolute luxury! School starts at 9 am and ends at 3:20. You can imagine how it freaks me out each day at to look at my watch, see that it is 8:15 am and think, oh, I better get going to work! It is wonderful to be able to get up and get some exercise before school and still be able to see my family before starting my work day.
And then there is Sport. Every Wednesday the kids get early release at noon to do sport - and I have the tough duty to take 20 of them to
Last Friday was the swim carnival where the whole school went to a nearby pool for a day of swimming races and relays. I cannot tell you how blown away I was by the whole experience. I got to watch 500 teenagers hang out all day and have nothing but good clean fun. It was seriously unreal. Not one fight, no one sneaking off to get high or smoke, and most kids even participated in the swimming events.
Faculty – They are entirely lovely. Everyone is incredibly nice to me and it appears that they are actually nice to each other too! They seem to be genuinely interested in each other and the students – I even heard an English teacher offer to cover a class for a Maths teacher who was attending a funeral of a students’ parent. Of course there are some personality issues that pop up, but they seem a bit less frequent than I am used to and usually joked about rather than festered.
General - There is no PA (public address system), no campus security or cop, no tagging (at least not on the school grounds - there is plenty around the city), teacher extra duty is 20 minutes twice a week during "recess" or lunch - yes they have both recess at 11:15 am and lunch at 1:30 pm, with the whole school at the same times. Every Friday the faculty do a special “tea” where a group of teachers provides treats and we all gather for a chat up with the Principal.
Finally, the Temperature: Blessedly, it has been much cooler the past few weeks. The downside is lots of rain which has put a bit of a damper on outdoor play some weekends. The best news is, this past week, as it has warmed up again (near 90 ° today) I am not sweating like a waterfall any more and really do not even feel it as much. I seem to have acclimated somewhat.
Bottom Line – School is good. I have had to work hard to find ways to best help each of my classes – each of which have a unique group personality and needs - but I like that part. I am having some little successes with each class, of course not as frequently as I would wish for, but that is the challenge of teaching. I am forming some nice relationships with kids and am enjoying the staff. The schedule is a breeze and I am excited to see how the rest of the year unfolds as we move into fall and our first round of term exams.
Thanks to everyone for their support and well wishes along the way. Blessings on you and yours,
Mark
Saturday, February 9, 2008
Drought-busters
We have been dubbed, by Mark's co-workers as The Drought-Busters. It has rained here more this month than it has in 12 years during the same time period. So for all of you who have told us that you were jealous of our having summer while you are enduring the cold and snow, mostly we are watching sheets of rain fall from gray skies.
It's good for the land, I know. Selfishly, it makes me a bit sad, however, to watch our only summer in Australia trickle away, day after day as we spend most of our time inside. I do feel a bit justified about complaining as most Aussies we talk to are whining too.
THE MOZZIES
Other than the rain, there are the mozzies. (I'll just get the whining out of the way first.) The mozzies (mosquitoes) are rampant and hostile. My poor children are covered in mozzie bites. They look like walking chicken pox casulties. I have to spray myself with bug spray just to drop the kids off at school each morning.
This is the view from our backyard. Can you see all the mozzies???
THE CULTURE
The other thing, while I'm complaining, is that there is this weird cultural thing we've noticed that continues to baffle us. I've come to call it an
invisible membrane that surrounds most Aussies I meet on the street. They seem completley oblivious to us and won't give us the time of day or help us if we're struggling or even smile as we pass on the bike paths. UNLESS we ask. If we approach them, they are more than happy to help or say hello or chit chat about all numbers of topics. But you have to break through this membrane (that is frankly pretty off-putting) if you want to engage with them.
For the first few weeks we were here, I was bound and determined to continue to say hello and smile at everyone I passed while running, thinking maybe this one American could infiltrate the country with friendliness toward strangers on the street. I got to a place where I wanted to shake each of them and say, "Be happy! You're in Australia! You're one of the lucky ones!!" But it's gotten disheartening to get so little response that I've all but given up. We went to a party this afternoon for all the exchange families who are here from the US, Canada and the UK. We had a conversation with a few other people who've noticed the same phenomenon so I am pretty sure it is not just us.
What is important to note, however, is that once we engage an Aussie, they seem thrilled to talk with us, learn where we're from and how we're finding it here or how we're getting on, and they will go to great lengths to help us if we ask. When we are just walking by each other or conducting normal business in a store, they don't seem to see us. But as soon as we say hello or start chatting, their faces light up like they hadn't even see us there. I look forward to finding out what the Aussie perspective is on all this.
THE KIDS
I think those are the only complaints at this point. Other than those very minor things, we are still having a good time here. The kids finished their first week of school. Gabe has made lots of friends, he bounds out of the car every morning consistently forgetting to say good-bye to me. (For those of you who have seen him in the halls of Front Range Waldorf School over the years, he's come quite a long way from the boy who screamed hysterically if he thought I'd forgotten to give him hugs and kisses before I left the building! Now I'm the one who wants to cry if we don't say good-bye to each other.) And at the end of the day, he is covered with mud, happy and exhausted. He tells us lots of stories of what his class does throughout the day--also a big change from when he was younger and we heard very little about what went on while we were apart. On the second day of school, he said he was more comfortable because he knew more what to expect. He had difficulty understanding the teacher some of the time so he just followed the mass of kids wherever they went. He pantomimed what it was like to hear the teacher say, "Okay, blah, blah, blah" and the kids would go running off so he'd just hurry up and follow them, having no idea where they were headed. By the end of the week he said he still didn't always understand what she said but he had a general sense when it was lunchtime and where they went to eat.
Jordan had a wonderful week as well. Her teacher told me that she was very engaged, happy, smiling, talkative and wonderous all week. She apparently found a hiding place during one of their games where no one could find her. Literally. So after the whole class went inside, her teacher noticed she wasn't there. She said her heart started pounding, she sent another teacher out to look for Jordan and he found her, sitting happily in her spot feeling very proud of herself that no one could find her. (She's had issues in the past with hide-and-seek, feeling like she never could find really good hiding places.) Because she didn't know that she'd essentially been abandoned or that her teacher was on the verge of a heart attack, this was a big success for her.
She loved eating the corn on the cob picked fresh from the school garden and having Dulcie the cow and her calf Daisy to visit daily. She has proudly learned two songs already and is confident enough with the words and tune that she's performed them for us. Her one criticism of the school thus far is that, "This school is all about the sun. We sing songs about the sun, hear stories about the sun. We can only paint with sun colors. It's getting sort of boring to have everything be about the sun all the time." I assured her I'd meet with the principal to discuss this catastrophe first thing Monday morning.
Jordan's hair gets mighty curly in the humidity!
Big fun fig trees to climb here.
MARK
Mark continues to learn more and more about his school, the kids and his role. He has two classes that each contain about 3-5 kids who are off the charts unruly. Those kids may have the power to make or break my sweet husband. I'm optimistic that they will help him refine and clarify for himself who he is as a teacher but there's always the chance that they will be the death of him. Keep a good thought! He also has several classes of quite lovely students who he enjoys very much. He loves that they call him "sir" and they play all kinds of games with him and his American accent and lexicon. He is enjoying his Wednesday afternoons as the entire school does "Sport." This means that all the students sign up for one sport each term and on Wednesdays, they leave campus and scatter about Newcastle engaging in that sport with several of the teachers as chaperones. Mark signed up to take students to the beach for beach volleyball on Wednesdays (there were no kids who signed up for golf so he's already started recruiting a few to sign up for next term,) so he's enjoying that. Because of the rain this past week, the temperature was signifcantly more comfortable in his classroom. He said it was nice to be just hot rather than dripping with sweat.
ME
I had a lovely week. I dropped Mark and the kids off at their respective schools at 9:00am and picked them up at the same places at 3:2o. In between I wrote and swam and laid on the beach (because the only sunny parts of this week were in the mornings) and got a few things done around the house. This lifestyle suits me. I have a few phone numbers of women I've met who I would really like to get to know better. But the thing is, these new people might get in the way of my new-found freedom. I'm not sure I'm ready to share this time with anyone else but me just yet. Maybe this will get old at some point but right now I feel like, after being stranded in the desert for years, I've got an endless supply of water in front of me and while my body may not be dehydrated anymore, I'm still really thirsty!
We are working hard at planning our holidays that will be coming up in the next few months. It's a bit daunting to figure out where we want to go while we're here. Imagine if you had several chunks of time and weekends to visit all of the US knowing very little about your options. Where would you go? How would you decide?
Until next time...
Tuesday, February 5, 2008
LIfe in Newcastle
Birds
Rosellas are smaller than parrots but flaunt the same display of primary colors. And we always see them in pairs which is endearing. I haven’t separated out their song yet.
Then there is, I swear, the Kookaburra. And, yes, we sing that song most every time we see one. “Kookaburra sits in the old gum tree, eating all the gum balls he can see. Laugh, Kookaburra laugh, Kookaburra save some just for me.” And they are the birds who sound just like monkeys laughing.
There are, unfortunately, many, many crows whose volume hogs the stage. They are just as annoying, loud and ever-present here as anywhere in the
But it is the crows who alert us to the nightly event that has captured the attention of our whole family since we first saw it. I mentioned when we first arrived in
Language
It is a different kind of English down here.
I spent this weekend in a writing workshop and had a similar experience—I was on high alert trying to understand what everyone was saying. Sometimes I would just let pass a few paragraphs at a time just to keep up. I felt a little bit like
There are a few words and phrases that I really enjoy:
*They tell people to “give it a go” rather than to try.
*When people do things smart or well, they refer to them as clever. Like when
*They don’t think about things, they “have a think.” This morning at the kids' school, one little girl was holding a snail and the other little girl said, "Can I have a hold?"
*Ha ya goin’? rather than “How’s it going” or “how ya doing?”
Culture
There’s this attitude in
The other morning, I was running out onto the almost mile-long jetty. I was about halfway down when I came to a big fence, blocking off access to continue on. There was no sign on it but it was clearly put there by someone with some power. So, being a good American who sometimes does what she’s told, even though she doesn’t like it, I turned around and stopped these two surfers walking by. I asked them what the fence was up for. They guessed maybe there was construction or something on the other side. I said, “So I shouldn’t run around it, should I?” And they said, without hesitation, “Oh, you can run on, if you like.” So I did. That made perfect sense to me—there was no reason for that fence that I could see, and no one is the boss of me, so I ran past it. Aussies are a little less rebellious in their rebellion—they don’t necessarily feel the need to justify their actions when they don’t do what they’re told, but nonetheless, I agreed with them and was thrilled to live in a land where my idea of what I want to do won’t get stymied by someone else’s rules. The funniest part was that after I’d turned around and was on my way back from the end of the jetty, I passed a fisherman and then I passed another runner and when I got to the fence again, someone had moved it completely out of the way. And I thought I was bold!
Kids Start School
Yesterday, the kids went off to their first day of school. The night before, as I was saying goodnight, I said the same thing to each of them, “Tomorrow is your first day at your new school—the day we’ve been talking about for months!”
I dropped them off and
You can drop kids off anytime between 8:30 and 9:30 and they all play outside, supervised by a handful of staff milling around. The grounds of this school are vast and look like a lush botanic garden designed just for children. It is a magical place where you can find children weaving under and around flowering arbors, darting out from bushes, balancing on big rocks lining a garden, and making up games in the open field. They don’t require the children wear shoes outside, except in the wood-working shop, so most of them weren’t. It looked like summer camp in fairy tale land.
So while
When I picked them up at the end of the day, Jordan came out first, she ran to me, gave me a quick hug and then stepped back a bit, looked me in the eye and said, “I want to come back again tomorrow.” I think she said that both because she knew she’d made it through the day and that the jury had been out until she had, but I also think she said that because she knew I was a bit worried about how she’d feel--I felt her reassuring me by the way she told me it was good. Then she immediately told me about the sick bird they found and how they made a nest for it and, and, and…
And I spent the day by myself. First I went to this big mall-type shopping center because I was committed to spending as much time as it took, without children, to figure out how to make that place work for me. It seems as though everyone else thinks it is a wonderful place to go to the grocery store, but the parking and the layout of this center are so unmanageable for me that I actually had to turn grocery shopping into an activity and commit a whole morning to figuring it out. Half-way through my whole-hearted attempt, I gave up and walked out, vowing to never return again so long as I live here. If you can picture Colorado Mills with no outdoor parking, only underground, and the grocery store is inside, and the parking garage has more non-useable space than parking space, and one-way arrows everywhere, and only about 20 spaces near the “Parking close to Woolworths” sign (Woolworths being the grocery store) and that once you finally surrender to parking far away, you walk in the closest door you can find and discover that the grocery store is literally on the other side of the huge Colorado Mills-sized mall, and that when you go into a closer store which is Kmart, they only have ¼ of what is on your shopping list so you decide to go back out to your car and drive around to look again for a closer parking spot to Woolworths and in the process of looking for a closer space, you get lost again in the underground parking garage, you might give up too.
So I went home and started working on my writing project and had a lovely day. I had to remind myself several times, when I got anxious that my day was almost over and I hadn’t gotten it all done yet, that I was going to have another day like this tomorrow and then 3 more after that and then a whole slew of weeks like this all year long. Then I’d smile. It felt like the difference between having a really small ice cream cone and spending the whole time you’re eating it wishing it was bigger, and owning the whole damn store. Who said less is more?
I best move on to my next thing now and let you move on with yours.
Sunday, February 3, 2008
mark's school
Hello all you faithful GoodmanDownUnder Bloggers. This is my first crack at the blog as
So week one at
Now for the meat:
I began the week on Tuesday with a day of teacher meetings and preparation time. A number of things of significance occurred that day: First of all the day started at 9 am – just a little odd for someone used to leaving the house at 4:30 am - I must say that I love that I am now able to see Nancy and the kids every morning rather than sneaking away in the dark of early morning like at home, Another was when the faculty sat down for our first meeting I noted that there we only about 40 people in the room and I wondered where the rest of the staff were. It dawned on me about half way through the meeting that forty teachers was all there were! I then came to understand the true difference between a school of 675 students and Thornton High which has over 2000 students. The second entertaining event occurred at 10:15, when after meeting for only 75 minutes we broke for “tea” which consisted of tea, instant coffee (the standard here) or water (no one drinks soda here L - but not to worry , I bring my own Diet Pepsi)and a massive assortment of muffins, bickies, pastries and fruit. Tea time lasted for 30 minutes followed by one more hour of meeting and that was it for teacher training. My Maths colleagues, who consist of 5 other men and 1 woman, all of whom are hysterically funny at times and incredibly helpful to this rookie, then invited me to the local pub for lunch where they each proceeded to consume two beers along with their meals before returning to work at 2 pm. We followed that with a short department meeting and about 30 minutes planning time before 3pm when they all ran out the door.
When school officially began the next day I had my first look at Aussie students – all neatly decked out in their school uniforms (Yellow shirts with grey shorts/skirts are
My classroom
Thursday and Friday were normal days and I finally got to meet the rest of my classes. I have another year 7, a year 9 level 3 (yes, they do tracking here – level 1 being the strongest - I’ll let all you educators know how well it works after I get a better sense of it), a year 10 level 4 (almost the lowest and it shows!), a year 11 General Maths (also a low group but older and more willing to work) and finally a year 8 level 1 (these were Prue’s favorites and clearly will be mine too).
The biggest challenge up until today has been the heat. It has been fairly moderate here since we returned from
“Sir, do you find it a bit hot here?” I could not help but crack up at that one and just wipe my head and move on. Thankfully last night a rain front moved in and it cooled to around 78 degrees. As I sit and write this on Friday evening, it has been pouring for last two hours and we have probably had over 2 inches of rain just tonight. Hopefully my body will acclimate before it heats up again here – otherwise I will just grin and bear it for another month until it begins to cool off here (all the way down to the 60’s I hear!) and bring a towel for wiping in the mean time.
So I can conclude with these thoughts: Teachers and students in
The Quad
The final story I will share highlights what may be the most significant difference I have noticed so far. The principal, in her address to the teachers on the first day, brought in a video from a speech she had attended in 2006 given by an Australian educator named
http://www.smh.com.au/news/opinion/amid-apathy-a-voice-of-sanity/2006/04/14/1144521506024.html
Blessings on you all from Down Under,
Mark